Are You Not Entertained?

If you're not having fun on dates, what's the point?

I tend to reject the notion that dating is difficult, and I say that as a 33-year-old tomboyish transsexual woman, hardly a mainstream option for much of the population. It’s okay, it makes me feel less bad about having such high standards myself.

For me, date quality tends to fall pretty consistently into three categories. If the chemistry is there, the…